az450thumper, Throttle control while standing just takes some practice - before you know it you'll be doing it without thinking about it. Try spending an afternoon riding (on a less technical section) with the goal of not letting your butt touch the seat
As for Hondafans suggestion "to tune out what anyone else says" - I disagree! (No offense meant! - Hondafan...) Try and listen to as many people as possible and use your best judgement to figure out the things that work for you. This forum is a good place to start for information. Remember, everyone will have advice for you but that doesn't mean you have to try it. The biggest thing is to RIDE, RELAX, AND HAVE FUN!
